Hello
readers,
"Always
compliment a comment and don't comment on a comment". I heard this phrase
nearly three years ago from a man of great wisdom and it has stuck with me ever
since. Now, does that mean I follow the phrase each time I speak? No, I do not
but, I do make effort. I interpreted this phrase to mean, whether someone says
something that does not make sense to you, simply state a kind word after the
statement has been made. For example, people say things to me all the time that
I do not agree with or that do not make sense, if what they are stating is not
demeaning/abusive to others, I simply say "okay, you have a point".
This does not mean I am not speaking the truth, it means I do not have to comment
negatively on everything someone says. Complimenting a comment can be used with
friends, family, spouses (especially spouses), and in the workplace. Next time
someone says something to you that you may or may not agree with and it is not
offensive to others, say "I understand, I get it, or I see your
point". Try it, it will show your maturity level.
Thanks for
reading and let us know your thoughts...
MJW
Www.truthspeakscoaching.com
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