If I want to
learn more about a person I will not ask the person anything. I will ask the people
they are associated with. On average we as adults have 3-4 close friends and
many associates. Those 3-4 friends tell the world everything anyone would need to know
about who you are. According to Harvard psychologist Dr. David McClelland those
people are called your reference group and these people will determine 95% of
your success or failure in life (Maxwell, 2014). Now that I have your
attention, do a quick examination of who is in your “circle”. Take a moment to
write their names down and the value they bring in your life. Do they have
career, family, life, and fun goals? Do they value who they are? Are they
positive, friendly, obedient, or courageous? Really think this over and let us
know your thoughts. Remember if there is no value, you may need to rethink who
is in your reference circle.
MJW
www.truthspeakscoaching.com
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